tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post2882950558084166943..comments2023-11-05T03:30:01.026-05:00Comments on The World According to Harlemite: Relationships 105:Getting back with the ExRene The Harlemitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17265156807652411432noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-24371168739391640052008-10-09T13:56:00.000-04:002008-10-09T13:56:00.000-04:00I've done it once and it was no picnic once the ho...I've done it once and it was no picnic once the honey phase was over. I remembered old habits and vices that caused the break up from the get go. So my advice is to not go back and fetch it unless you are going to learn something from it. All in all...don't go back if there is no love there and if neither one has grown.Serena W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08899725312118622702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-32124944933226540282008-10-07T21:35:00.000-04:002008-10-07T21:35:00.000-04:00Amen amigo! Some people have the vicious cycle of ...Amen amigo! Some people have the vicious cycle of returning to their ex's and do not realize how much time is wasted on something that will never function. Learn from the past to progress into the future.<BR/>~CarmenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-19426633793368985042008-10-07T18:34:00.000-04:002008-10-07T18:34:00.000-04:00Sometimes we are so caught up in the want that we ...Sometimes we are so caught up in the want that we forget to consider the whole picture, or the why. It's often so hard to go back because the time between on and on again can be marred by anger, tension, resentment and some push/pull behaviors as well. Where do you go from there? Often no place good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-81353557506335614742008-10-07T17:09:00.000-04:002008-10-07T17:09:00.000-04:00My Gran always told me to never try on old shoes.....My Gran always told me to never try on old shoes.. Been there, never works for good reason.Ikudnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09748221908208454908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-80909288658082603262008-10-07T17:07:00.000-04:002008-10-07T17:07:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ikudnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09748221908208454908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5696296544425339061.post-54823025469508085882008-10-07T16:37:00.000-04:002008-10-07T16:37:00.000-04:00usually they are an ex for a reason BUT if one or ...usually they are an ex for a reason BUT if one or both of you have grown and love each other enuf to be patient and work through it, i say go for itEricaMichele77https://www.blogger.com/profile/13147178705734504836noreply@blogger.com